A way to prepare someone for change

Hello and welcome to my blog spot again. Today I'm going to tell you about how to prepare someone for your change. The first thing you have to know and understand is that you are forcing all your closest people and everyone who you know and/or are in contact with to change.
If you are alone with your own thoughts and you are creating changes in your mind and habitual ways of being and fighting with your x factors, then people around you feel, that something is changing and now their x factor starts to scream, because they are not ready for the changes you are making to you, even if they want you to change to the direction that you are heading.
Now you have to understand that if the other person doesn't know all this that I'm saying, then he will put up a fight. You must understand and forgive as you are the one who is forcing something that they are not ready to do. Anyway It's not a bad thing to do when you have changed, to explain what happened and that It's only for the better.
But to prepare someone is easier than starting to change your self. You have to be available and open minded before you go in your changing chamber. You have to show them that you care about them and that you are taking responsibility about your actions and promises. You have to gain their reliance and respect. Afterwords you have to tell them, that there is something going to change and you want it so, but it's for the better for all. And you have to inform them, that it's nothing personal and you just need time on your own to think and be alone for a while. Then you can start the change, but be careful, because people are not able to take it if they are not trained. You have to understand what's happening to accept it and let it happen. Your X factor makes you go crazy.

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