How to deciede?

Many of us think, that decisions we make are just decisions about what we do. Actually it is a decision about what we are (as I mentioned before) but in this post I want to let you know how can you use this simple truth for your benefit.

How do you make decisions usually? I bet you think about the positive aspects of doing it, the negative ones and then about if you want to be involved in this or any activity at all. As a result you do mostly the things others expect you to do. This is really important. Although we make the decision on our own, our mind is used to think what do others expect from us to be doing. So the circle goes on and on.

The right way of making a decision is (well one of the starting steps or ways to do that) after your brain has registered a multiple choice or just on choice decision, you have to imagine, that you are already doing x, y or z. Then compare the inner feelings chose the one you felt best about. Close your eyes and take the time to imagine and feel the feelings. Don't look in your imagination to what others do, think or feel. Just ask your self. Then categorize them in to 1th, 2nd and the last thing to do and only then ask your friends, family or others about what they want...

If you do so, then you will never regret what you did and who you are. Others will love you because of you being true to them and to your self. You will not only earn true respect, but you will feel good where ever you go, what ever you do as long as it is in harmony with what you feel.

I hope you got the message, but if not, feel free to comment or send me an e-mail.