For as long as I can remember, Dad had a saying that, to my adolescent mind, seemed rather strange. He would say, "Either you own the car or the car owns you." To make that point, he would refer to people who buy a really nice car, but won't let anyone drive it - including those closest to them. (I think we all know some of those people). They pamper the car more than they pamper the important people in their lives - and sometimes even themselves.
Little did I know at the time that a lesson Dad taught me when I was 17 would be a lesson I would teach my own son, 29 years later.
In 1976, Cadillac was producing "the last convertible". It was the beautiful, heart-stopping, powerful Eldorado. I remember vividly the day Dad drove that car into our driveway. It had a shining white exterior, with tan, ultra-soft leather. It seemed to silently glide into the drive. It looked enormous, even for the days of the giant gas guzzlers. I still remember the smell of the new interior, and the huge smile on Dad's face, as if it were yesterday.
I always loved driving that beautiful car. I learned to drive in it. I got my license in it. As far as cars go, it was "my first love."
Back then, like today, my father travelled a lot. He was - and still is - on the road more than he is home. When I was younger, this could be a big perk, because - yes, you guessed it - he would freely leave his car for me and my cousins. We all got to enjoy that very special vehicle while he was away.
During one of his trips, I got into a pretty serious accident. I drove into the back of another vehicle - it was completely my fault. I remember looking at the damage to the front of Dad's car, and feeling dread, sorrow and then fear, at having to tell him what I had done. I had no idea how my father would react, but my imagination took worry and fear to new heights.
It took awhile, but I mustered up the courage to call Dad. I told him the whole story - how it was my fault. I described the damage that his beautiful Eldorado had suffered.
I will NEVER forget the concern and the peacefulness in his voice, as he asked me, "Brian, are you ok? That's all that matters. The car is just a piece of tin. It can be fixed." Then he said, "It's called an accident because that is what it is. You didn't intentionally go out to wreck the car, so don't let it bother you another moment."
The car was repaired, and life went on. The next time Dad went out of town, I got to use the car again, without hesitation. Dad loved that car, but he didn't let it control him. This is a lesson I carry to this day.
How lessons can come back around in the strangest ways.
I am often asked what it's like to have Bob Proctor as a father. For a presentation to a large audience, I decided to incorporate a story about my dad, and I chose to tell the story of the Eldorado, because I really wanted everyone to understand what a great man my Dad truly is. It was fun reliving it, and I enjoyed the story as much as everyone else in the group.
Ironically, the very next day, I got a call from my son saying that he had wrecked my truck.
I could hear the worry in his voice. I believe I responded, word for word, exactly as my father had, 29 years earlier. I know my voice was also calm and peaceful; Danny hadn't been hurt, and that was truly the only important thing - not the piece of tin.
Brian Proctor (Bob's son)
Excerpt from Inspired: The Secret of Bob Proctor
Friday 31 July 2009
The ultimate choice in your life
Question is... Are people going to find out who I am and shoot me for help a few minds to break free from this illusion called life? Ups - I forgot that I'm having my profile on my blog... That could mean... Stop... No really STOP! Stop and think... Are you able to just think critically about what's going on? Listen to his words and then notice the time he spent on this planet... You know there is a saying, that if you finish your purpose or your plan for this life on this planet, you kind of go on to the next level? We all are afraid from dieing... Isn't that foolish? How do you know, that dieing is bad?
Choose love over fear and you will see the world in ways you could never imagine for as long as you want, because that’s the bonus you get for completing the levels or the game… You get to play over a few levels just for fun… I believe, that it is fun enough to do that while you don’t think, that others can come back to replay the level they failed to complete because you shot them… Then you have gone too far…
Sorry for this post, but it’s 3:30 at night and I’m just pissed, that every one who is able to unlock the whole truth and is not trying to get profit from it is shut up… It’s like let them know every thing except the ultimate freedom of the reason why we the real owners of the world are rich… You know actually they are so concerned about their safety, that they are rich only because they achieved the riches long before they got stupid and afraid. So don’t let others or the media (that is been paid in every country for programming your mind) to control your thinking and instead start forming your own opinions!
Choose love over fear and you will see the world in ways you could never imagine for as long as you want, because that’s the bonus you get for completing the levels or the game… You get to play over a few levels just for fun… I believe, that it is fun enough to do that while you don’t think, that others can come back to replay the level they failed to complete because you shot them… Then you have gone too far…
Sorry for this post, but it’s 3:30 at night and I’m just pissed, that every one who is able to unlock the whole truth and is not trying to get profit from it is shut up… It’s like let them know every thing except the ultimate freedom of the reason why we the real owners of the world are rich… You know actually they are so concerned about their safety, that they are rich only because they achieved the riches long before they got stupid and afraid. So don’t let others or the media (that is been paid in every country for programming your mind) to control your thinking and instead start forming your own opinions!
Friday 24 July 2009
Story: The Lesson of the Morning Glory!
I planted seeds in my little garden this year.
I have never planted seeds before, because I am not a very patient person, and waiting for the little green shoots to rise above the ground, was just too much for me. But this year, I thought I would give it a try. I thought it would be a good metaphor for me, to plant something and watch it grow, much as I have many times, planted thoughts, dreams and affirmations and watched many of them become a reality.
And so, in the Spring of this year, I planted my garden. I chose many types of flowers and among them, Morning Glories. Within a month, many of the other flowers were bursting through the earth, but not the Morning Glories.
Each morning, I would run outside to check on them, and nothing, nothing for several weeks more. I was about to give up on them. I was sure that they just did not 'take' so to speak. But finally, it happened! They had broken through the earth, and were starting to climb. And climb, and climb, and climb, they did....with their big, beautiful, heart shaped leaves.
And so, the saga continued, nothing for weeks and weeks and weeks but more and more beautiful leaves. And I thought to myself, "Well, leaves are nice, but that is all I will probably get at this point." And then, one fine and glorious morning, there it was, the most beautiful sky-blue morning glory I have ever seen!!! It seemed like a miracle to me. I had waited over 3 months for this one delicate, funnel-shaped flower to show up and now here it was, in all its splendor.
It reminded me of just how many times I had waited in life for something I had longed for, and how incredible it felt when it finally arrived, and also, how many times, that I had wanted to throw in the towel, and just give up.
But I wasn't prepared for what was to happen next, with these little flowers, and I was surprised and deeply saddened by it.
Roses and geraniums and daisies and most other flowers bloom and stay around for a while, but not Morning Glories. Morning Glories open themselves up to the world, in the morning, in all of their glory, hence the name, Morning Glory.
And if you look closely at them, you will see how extraordinary they are, both in colour and texture, and that in their centre, is a kind of golden light that shines from within.
But here is the hard part...
At the end of the day, they turn a most beautiful shade of lavender, and then close up, wither and die. They live for only one day, and then they are gone. I cannot tell you how much this saddened me, and what a profound effect this little flower had upon my life. I kept thinking how sad to be so beautiful and live for only one day. And then, I suddenly realized what a gift they were.
You see, it doesn't matter how long your life is. It only matters that you were here, in all your glory, that you opened up completely, and let your light shine, and that you brought joy to those who came into contact with you. That's what matters to the morning glory, and that's what really matters to all of us.
The morning glories make me appreciate every new day now, in a way I didn't before. Each evening, I go and visit with them, knowing those particular ones won't be here tomorrow, new ones will take their place. If we knew when we woke up in the morning, that we only had that one day to really live, life would be very different indeed for many of us.
Now, each morning, I give thanks that I have been given the gift of another day, in all its glory. We can learn from all of life, if we remain open to the beauty that is all around us. And nature can be one of our greatest teachers.
What a profound lesson from such a simple flower.
Thank you, my sweet little morning glories!
Veronica Hay
Veronica Hay is an inspirational writer and author of In A Dream, You Can Do Anything, An Extraordinary Collection Of Words. Her work inspires others to be more of who they really are. For more insights and inspiration you can visit her website at: www.insightsandinspirations.com or email her at veronicahay@telus.net
I have never planted seeds before, because I am not a very patient person, and waiting for the little green shoots to rise above the ground, was just too much for me. But this year, I thought I would give it a try. I thought it would be a good metaphor for me, to plant something and watch it grow, much as I have many times, planted thoughts, dreams and affirmations and watched many of them become a reality.
And so, in the Spring of this year, I planted my garden. I chose many types of flowers and among them, Morning Glories. Within a month, many of the other flowers were bursting through the earth, but not the Morning Glories.
Each morning, I would run outside to check on them, and nothing, nothing for several weeks more. I was about to give up on them. I was sure that they just did not 'take' so to speak. But finally, it happened! They had broken through the earth, and were starting to climb. And climb, and climb, and climb, they did....with their big, beautiful, heart shaped leaves.
And so, the saga continued, nothing for weeks and weeks and weeks but more and more beautiful leaves. And I thought to myself, "Well, leaves are nice, but that is all I will probably get at this point." And then, one fine and glorious morning, there it was, the most beautiful sky-blue morning glory I have ever seen!!! It seemed like a miracle to me. I had waited over 3 months for this one delicate, funnel-shaped flower to show up and now here it was, in all its splendor.
It reminded me of just how many times I had waited in life for something I had longed for, and how incredible it felt when it finally arrived, and also, how many times, that I had wanted to throw in the towel, and just give up.
But I wasn't prepared for what was to happen next, with these little flowers, and I was surprised and deeply saddened by it.
Roses and geraniums and daisies and most other flowers bloom and stay around for a while, but not Morning Glories. Morning Glories open themselves up to the world, in the morning, in all of their glory, hence the name, Morning Glory.
And if you look closely at them, you will see how extraordinary they are, both in colour and texture, and that in their centre, is a kind of golden light that shines from within.
But here is the hard part...
At the end of the day, they turn a most beautiful shade of lavender, and then close up, wither and die. They live for only one day, and then they are gone. I cannot tell you how much this saddened me, and what a profound effect this little flower had upon my life. I kept thinking how sad to be so beautiful and live for only one day. And then, I suddenly realized what a gift they were.
You see, it doesn't matter how long your life is. It only matters that you were here, in all your glory, that you opened up completely, and let your light shine, and that you brought joy to those who came into contact with you. That's what matters to the morning glory, and that's what really matters to all of us.
The morning glories make me appreciate every new day now, in a way I didn't before. Each evening, I go and visit with them, knowing those particular ones won't be here tomorrow, new ones will take their place. If we knew when we woke up in the morning, that we only had that one day to really live, life would be very different indeed for many of us.
Now, each morning, I give thanks that I have been given the gift of another day, in all its glory. We can learn from all of life, if we remain open to the beauty that is all around us. And nature can be one of our greatest teachers.
What a profound lesson from such a simple flower.
Thank you, my sweet little morning glories!
Veronica Hay
Veronica Hay is an inspirational writer and author of In A Dream, You Can Do Anything, An Extraordinary Collection Of Words. Her work inspires others to be more of who they really are. For more insights and inspiration you can visit her website at: www.insightsandinspirations.com or email her at veronicahay@telus.net
Wednesday 22 July 2009
Michael Jackson knew the secret!
Michael Jackson knew "The secret" too! Here is his song that speaks about the way how to achieve things... It is stunning!
Friday 17 July 2009
The turning point of my blog
Hi again! This is another turning point for my blog. Today I reached my 100. post and this is already the 101. post in witch I inform you, that I'm beginning to write a book for you guys in 2 languages. It's planned, that I finish it 2 - 5 years from now. For that my friends I need to do something special. I need you to help me write it... It's actually easy - you just have to ask me your most actual questions at that time about any topic, that regards life. And I urge you to write them all not specifying any names or any kind of information, that can help people find those people involved in your story - question.
The second thing I'm going to do for you is that I'm going to post every once in a week a story like in my previous post, that will teach you something. Now almost all the time I won't be the author of those stories. The author will be Bob Proctor and his friends, but once in a while there will be my own stories too.
Thank you for being my readers and followers for already 7 - 8 months!
The second thing I'm going to do for you is that I'm going to post every once in a week a story like in my previous post, that will teach you something. Now almost all the time I won't be the author of those stories. The author will be Bob Proctor and his friends, but once in a while there will be my own stories too.
Thank you for being my readers and followers for already 7 - 8 months!
Story: "This is Good"
The story is told of a king in Africa who had a close friend with whom he grew up. The friend had a habit of looking at every situation that ever occurred in his life (positive or negative) and remarking, "This is good!"
One day the king and his friend were out on a hunting expedition. The friend would load and prepare the guns for the king. The friend had apparently done something wrong in preparing one of the guns, for after taking the gun from his friend, the king fired it and his thumb was blown off. Examining the situation, the friend remarked as usual, "This is good!"
To which the king replied - "No, this is not good!" and proceeded to send his friend to jail.
About a year later, the king was hunting in an area that he should have known to stay clear of. Cannibals captured him and took him to their village. They tied his hands, stacked some wood, set up a stake and bound him to the stake.
As they came near to set fire to the wood, they noticed that the king was missing a thumb. Being superstitious, they never ate anyone who was less than whole. So untying the king, they sent him on his way.
As he returned home, he was reminded of the event that had taken his thumb and felt remorse for his treatment of his friend. He went immediately to the jail to speak with his friend.
"You were right," he said, "it was good that my thumb was blown off." And he proceeded to tell the friend all that had just happened." And so, I am very sorry for sending you to jail for so long. It was bad for me to do this."
"No," his friend replied, "This is good!"
"What do you mean, 'This is good'? How could it be good that I sent my friend to jail for a year?"
"If I had not been in jail, I would have been with you, and not here with you right now."
In a very unusual way, the message here unfolds into exposing the following principle about life.
"Absolutely everything happens for a purpose; and out of what seems like adversity at the time; always comes good".
I'm sure that if any of us care to reflect back on the tragedy's, the heartaches, the 'bad times' in our lives, that we discover that we have really grown or developed during that period of time:even though the reflection may still cause us discomfort in some way.
It is in this way that we slowly gather experience and wisdom, and even though we may think or feel that it is unfair, that's the way it is.
"This is good". Many of our life's experiences have saved us from some form of cannibals; it's just that we often don't know that they have at the time.
So, for a simple example to help with awareness: next time you may begin to feel you are being 'wronged' by being stuck in a traffic jam, think about the cannibals that could be lurking down the road a bit,but will be gone by the time you get there.
Now that's a bit different, but worth trying: "this is good" - despite the circumstances.
Remember: "What others do or say is their stuff; how we react, or not, is our stuff"!
And: "True Happiness in life isn't having what you want, but wanting what you have"!
© Phil Evans
www.peoplestuff.com.au
Personal (Life) Coach and Small Business Mentor
Specializing in Relationship Dynamics
Keynote Speaker: Life Skills and Business Topics
One day the king and his friend were out on a hunting expedition. The friend would load and prepare the guns for the king. The friend had apparently done something wrong in preparing one of the guns, for after taking the gun from his friend, the king fired it and his thumb was blown off. Examining the situation, the friend remarked as usual, "This is good!"
To which the king replied - "No, this is not good!" and proceeded to send his friend to jail.
About a year later, the king was hunting in an area that he should have known to stay clear of. Cannibals captured him and took him to their village. They tied his hands, stacked some wood, set up a stake and bound him to the stake.
As they came near to set fire to the wood, they noticed that the king was missing a thumb. Being superstitious, they never ate anyone who was less than whole. So untying the king, they sent him on his way.
As he returned home, he was reminded of the event that had taken his thumb and felt remorse for his treatment of his friend. He went immediately to the jail to speak with his friend.
"You were right," he said, "it was good that my thumb was blown off." And he proceeded to tell the friend all that had just happened." And so, I am very sorry for sending you to jail for so long. It was bad for me to do this."
"No," his friend replied, "This is good!"
"What do you mean, 'This is good'? How could it be good that I sent my friend to jail for a year?"
"If I had not been in jail, I would have been with you, and not here with you right now."
In a very unusual way, the message here unfolds into exposing the following principle about life.
"Absolutely everything happens for a purpose; and out of what seems like adversity at the time; always comes good".
I'm sure that if any of us care to reflect back on the tragedy's, the heartaches, the 'bad times' in our lives, that we discover that we have really grown or developed during that period of time:even though the reflection may still cause us discomfort in some way.
It is in this way that we slowly gather experience and wisdom, and even though we may think or feel that it is unfair, that's the way it is.
"This is good". Many of our life's experiences have saved us from some form of cannibals; it's just that we often don't know that they have at the time.
So, for a simple example to help with awareness: next time you may begin to feel you are being 'wronged' by being stuck in a traffic jam, think about the cannibals that could be lurking down the road a bit,but will be gone by the time you get there.
Now that's a bit different, but worth trying: "this is good" - despite the circumstances.
Remember: "What others do or say is their stuff; how we react, or not, is our stuff"!
And: "True Happiness in life isn't having what you want, but wanting what you have"!
© Phil Evans
www.peoplestuff.com.au
Personal (Life) Coach and Small Business Mentor
Specializing in Relationship Dynamics
Keynote Speaker: Life Skills and Business Topics
Mind power pacage
10 Ways to Package Your Expertise for Maximum Profits
If you want to make the most of your expertise, you have to make sure that your income does not depend on how many hours you work.
No matter how high your hourly rate, you can only work a limited number of hours and you can only be in one place at a time.
So, in order to make more profit, you need to find a way to package your expertise so that others will pay for it without you having to be there in person.
How to package your expertise
Once you have decided how best to position your expertise, here are some of the main ways you can package it for maximum profit:
- Write a printed book: Imagine you meet two consultants at a convention. One hands you a business card, the other gives you a signed copy of his book. Which one is likely to win more clients and charge higher fees? There’s no doubt that people who have written books have instant authority status. Yet, with on-demand publishing, it’s now quite easy for anyone to do this.
- Write an ebook: For people not ready to produce a published book, there is a faster option of producing a ebook for sale online as an instant download. Ebooks are very fast to produce and are usually much shorter than printed books. However, because of the instant access – and usually because other bonuses are added to the purchase, the sales price is often much higher.
- Audio and video programs: Technology now makes it very easy to produce an audio or video delivering valuable information, either as a special recording or as a recording of an existing event. These can be quickly packaged and sold at relatively high prices, either as an instant download or by mail using low-cost fulfillment services.
- Membership sites and online courses: Another way of delivering information is through subscription-based membership websites or online courses dealing with a specific topic.
- Advertising revenue: Revenue can also be generated through advertising on a website or blog. Although the income here may be much less than for the other types of product, it can be an attractive source of extra revenue.
- Coaching programs: Books, audio and video typically provide information in a very general way so there is often demand from people for personal advice on how to apply the information to their own situation. This opens the demand for coaching which can be delivered online, by telephone and in person.
- Seminars and workshops: Personal coaching is typically only delivered to one person at a time but seminars and workshops are a method of delivering the same information quickly to a much larger group. While the revenue per head may be lower for this approach, the large numbers of people that can be covered make it very attractive.
- Training programs: Some organizations may want the expertise delivered to larger groups of people in an interactive way through training programs and will pay significant fees to have this done.
- Consultancy: Often people are looking not just for information but they want specific solutions for exactly how they should apply the information to their own situation. This can open up opportunities for very significant fees.
- Franchising to others: If you can structure your expertise so that it is easily turned into a system and taught to others, you have the opportunity to license them to deliver it without your presence, leading to the prospect of licensing fees and other revenue.
You won’t maximize your income just by creating a $50 ebook. But equally running a few high-ticket seminars will not give you the best possible income either.
You probably won’t use all of these techniques but the secret is to find the right mix of different ways of packaging your expertise in multiple ways to deliver maximum profit.
Many of them will work well together. Someone attending one of your seminars may buy a book or audio product and then later return for consultancy or coaching.
The choice of which is appropriate will depend on your personal skills and preferences and the market demand.This and much more you can find in here... Information taken from http://mindpowermarketing.com
Tuesday 14 July 2009
If I know anything, then you need to watch this video...
Go to this web address and make it your favorite address to visit not counting my blog of course... http://www.ted.com/talks/lang/eng/dean_ornish_on_healing.html What is the difference between Illness and Wellness... It is the I and We before the llness... I - Illness and We - are Wellness... So keep this in mind, watch the video and please if you can - get back to me at any given time in any way you are able to contact me...
A good visualisation video for your fantasy.
This is a good example, but don't use this one for you. Create your own, wither in your mind or using the computer, but create your own video for you. Remember to use some of the objects or things or mental values you already have!
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Rest your eyes and listen to this
Bob has some powerful information here for you to share with. And while you are listening to this try to understand and really sink into this stuff... It's going to change your thinking, and thinking creates your reality.
Relationship and awareness
Hi my friends. I haven't been updating this blog for I while because I was doing some research to answer a question I received almost a week ago. It was about relationships and why are things happening as they are happening. After this person told me the problem I immediately understood why it is happening, but I couldn't teach that person why it was happening. So I went back to my table and my google.com and my brain listening tightly to my self to find the answer. For about 5 days nothing happened, but then I got the glimpse of the universal intelligence and I started to remember things I just needed to unleash the reason why are things happening the way the where for that person. And that gave me some extra knowledge and understanding and lifted my awareness for another level. As some doctor once said - "You don't understand it if you can't explain it to others..."
You see that person was in love with someone, but the problem was, that she felt like he is using her for her money and had no interest what so ever in her as a person. But she on contrary was in over her head in love with him. I think I must mention, that she is older than he is and so the difference is still big while they are young. So he has like this wild hair - thinks only about how to be cool and/or about him self. But inside he kind of likes that older girl. She holds some kind of fascination about her self. So he is trying to regularly find a reason why to be with her. She on the other hand is just waiting for him to come over at any given time. So what's the problem you might ask. You see they can't be together, because their frequencies don't match.
The only thing, that controls the frequency you are in is thoughts. They match when they think, that they can't get each other and they match when they sit at home and think about each other, but when they meet they firmly believe, that it's not possible for them to be together as where the boy thinks, that the girl is not even interested in him or he doesn't care (because he actually is afraid to loose her). So the result is this pushing back and forth and not getting any end result. Nor bad, nor positive. That is what I call being stuck in your own negative thinking, that is keeping you from what you want to achieve. Isn't that a little dumb? I think every one would agree. But think about this for a moment. If you agree on this, then why are you not a millionaire? You don't want to be? I have never met a person who really wouldn't like to have the money they want...
People tend to criticize everything they don't understand or agree with. Instead of asking and researching why are people acting in a certain way and not make your own mistakes in the same area, we criticize them to build up our self esteem, because it is low. No one who has a high self esteem criticizes any one.
But back to the problem. Now you see, that they both desire to be together in some way. They both put their energy, that matches at the maximum for them not to be able, because they think, they can't be together and they both spend the maximum of their energy for them to be together, because it is what they both want in some way. That brings you at 0 point, that doesn't lead you in any direction. And it is not good, because it tends you to say by to your want and go on living with out it as it is hard to keep wanting, that you don't believe you can get. You see there is a difference between wishing and being ready to receive what you wish for. And the difference is to believe you can acquire it. That is their problem. They are not aware, that they can get whatever they say they want. So they lack the awareness and that's why they can't get together.
The results are dependent only, and I mean every thing in your life, upon your level of your awareness. If you are not aware, that you can and how you can, then you are not able to get it. For example, if you are not aware of how to use your keyboard and your mouse, how do you use a standard PC?
In this example I didn't only show you the awareness thing, but I show you, that everything is already there, you just have to be aware, that the PC is on your desk, and how to use it to get the most out of it. The same thing here, you have to aware, that the other person is there and waiting for you. You have to be aware, that you can acquire anything you truly believe you can get and start getting emotionally evolved with this thought and this fantasy and this person you want and this life style and this feeling it self - what you feel while fantasizing about all the goods you want. In other words you have to keep your self to getting the same emotions what you feel fantasizing about your goals every day, so your vibration will be in the same frequency as are the things you dream about.
So again easy steps for you to practice:
So keep up the good work and I hope I could help and explain you, that the results you get in your life is only the level of your awareness and that the problems we have we have to solve inside of us and nowhere else. And why are things happening the way they are... :)
Hope to hear from you guys any time soon to answer your next questions. And if you read this blog for the first time, then feel free to send me a question of your own. I will answer it here and don't worry, your name or any other personal information, that could point to you will not be shared what so ever...
You see that person was in love with someone, but the problem was, that she felt like he is using her for her money and had no interest what so ever in her as a person. But she on contrary was in over her head in love with him. I think I must mention, that she is older than he is and so the difference is still big while they are young. So he has like this wild hair - thinks only about how to be cool and/or about him self. But inside he kind of likes that older girl. She holds some kind of fascination about her self. So he is trying to regularly find a reason why to be with her. She on the other hand is just waiting for him to come over at any given time. So what's the problem you might ask. You see they can't be together, because their frequencies don't match.
The only thing, that controls the frequency you are in is thoughts. They match when they think, that they can't get each other and they match when they sit at home and think about each other, but when they meet they firmly believe, that it's not possible for them to be together as where the boy thinks, that the girl is not even interested in him or he doesn't care (because he actually is afraid to loose her). So the result is this pushing back and forth and not getting any end result. Nor bad, nor positive. That is what I call being stuck in your own negative thinking, that is keeping you from what you want to achieve. Isn't that a little dumb? I think every one would agree. But think about this for a moment. If you agree on this, then why are you not a millionaire? You don't want to be? I have never met a person who really wouldn't like to have the money they want...
People tend to criticize everything they don't understand or agree with. Instead of asking and researching why are people acting in a certain way and not make your own mistakes in the same area, we criticize them to build up our self esteem, because it is low. No one who has a high self esteem criticizes any one.
But back to the problem. Now you see, that they both desire to be together in some way. They both put their energy, that matches at the maximum for them not to be able, because they think, they can't be together and they both spend the maximum of their energy for them to be together, because it is what they both want in some way. That brings you at 0 point, that doesn't lead you in any direction. And it is not good, because it tends you to say by to your want and go on living with out it as it is hard to keep wanting, that you don't believe you can get. You see there is a difference between wishing and being ready to receive what you wish for. And the difference is to believe you can acquire it. That is their problem. They are not aware, that they can get whatever they say they want. So they lack the awareness and that's why they can't get together.
The results are dependent only, and I mean every thing in your life, upon your level of your awareness. If you are not aware, that you can and how you can, then you are not able to get it. For example, if you are not aware of how to use your keyboard and your mouse, how do you use a standard PC?
In this example I didn't only show you the awareness thing, but I show you, that everything is already there, you just have to be aware, that the PC is on your desk, and how to use it to get the most out of it. The same thing here, you have to aware, that the other person is there and waiting for you. You have to be aware, that you can acquire anything you truly believe you can get and start getting emotionally evolved with this thought and this fantasy and this person you want and this life style and this feeling it self - what you feel while fantasizing about all the goods you want. In other words you have to keep your self to getting the same emotions what you feel fantasizing about your goals every day, so your vibration will be in the same frequency as are the things you dream about.
So again easy steps for you to practice:
- Write on a card what you really want
- Read it as much as possible out loud throw out the day.
- While reading try to feel these good feelings you feel when you fantasize about the good you want.
- When you fantasize, try to search for the feeling of already having what you want.
- Believe you can get it and opportunities will come your way.
So keep up the good work and I hope I could help and explain you, that the results you get in your life is only the level of your awareness and that the problems we have we have to solve inside of us and nowhere else. And why are things happening the way they are... :)
Hope to hear from you guys any time soon to answer your next questions. And if you read this blog for the first time, then feel free to send me a question of your own. I will answer it here and don't worry, your name or any other personal information, that could point to you will not be shared what so ever...
Tuesday 7 July 2009
New material about things we don't even believe, but we should!
Hi my friends and followers! I have coma across a new thing that I have been telling you all the time and didn't straight believed it could be like that, and only recently I discovered, that it is so and no other way. Sounds easy - is easy, but it's hard to do the easy things in a long period of time... That's the hock.
See I never believed that I could acquire things I really wanted and they would (in time of course) become a reality for me. If I should wish for something and it would happen, then everyone would have their perfect lives. But still they don't so how do I acquire it? This was a grate question for my mind for a long period of time... I couldn't just figure out a way I could acquire what I really wanted. That sounds so foolish to me now, when I have learned, that you do not have to know how you are going to do it and how it's going to come about... You just have to know that you are going to acquire it and that's it! It is as simple as that! No woo-doo tricks or other knickknack... You just learn how to operate with your mind and that will make you tons of riches! (Remember, that money is the last and logical result of being rich!).
Anyway back to the story. I never believed, that I could acquire more money in the same job I'm working in and I never believed, that I could earn money in my own company where I did what I really wanted namely web developing. I thought that I have to find something I would like doing too and started to look around. And exactly then I started to receive orders to make this and that homepage and such a script and so on... I didn't realize what and why it was happening. So most of the orders disappeared as quickly as they came to me. Then came the last one, that changed my way of thinking and my beliefs.
I received an order to create a small and easy to make web application, that would be needed for a while until the new system arrives... I started working on it and things started to happen. I made up with some enemies I had earned at work. I even learned something new about programming I didn't know before. I gave my best (in fact I haven't even finished that project, because it has grown to a huge project) and I'm going to keep giving my best to make this project to work. But the best thing is, that I received not only an order to create such a thing, but I got me a new job, that I could easily connect with my current job and earn almost 1,5 times more than I did before. So that has increased my wage starting the next month from ~400$ to ~ 600$ just like that.
And the thing is, that I'm receiving this extra money because I'm doing what I really love doing - creating web applications. That thought me, that there is a difference between wishing for things and really being ready to receive them.
So again here is the golden formula every one who has achieved anything will tell you.
Remember! You can do it, just believe you can and start acting upon your inspired thinking!
See I never believed that I could acquire things I really wanted and they would (in time of course) become a reality for me. If I should wish for something and it would happen, then everyone would have their perfect lives. But still they don't so how do I acquire it? This was a grate question for my mind for a long period of time... I couldn't just figure out a way I could acquire what I really wanted. That sounds so foolish to me now, when I have learned, that you do not have to know how you are going to do it and how it's going to come about... You just have to know that you are going to acquire it and that's it! It is as simple as that! No woo-doo tricks or other knickknack... You just learn how to operate with your mind and that will make you tons of riches! (Remember, that money is the last and logical result of being rich!).
Anyway back to the story. I never believed, that I could acquire more money in the same job I'm working in and I never believed, that I could earn money in my own company where I did what I really wanted namely web developing. I thought that I have to find something I would like doing too and started to look around. And exactly then I started to receive orders to make this and that homepage and such a script and so on... I didn't realize what and why it was happening. So most of the orders disappeared as quickly as they came to me. Then came the last one, that changed my way of thinking and my beliefs.
I received an order to create a small and easy to make web application, that would be needed for a while until the new system arrives... I started working on it and things started to happen. I made up with some enemies I had earned at work. I even learned something new about programming I didn't know before. I gave my best (in fact I haven't even finished that project, because it has grown to a huge project) and I'm going to keep giving my best to make this project to work. But the best thing is, that I received not only an order to create such a thing, but I got me a new job, that I could easily connect with my current job and earn almost 1,5 times more than I did before. So that has increased my wage starting the next month from ~400$ to ~ 600$ just like that.
And the thing is, that I'm receiving this extra money because I'm doing what I really love doing - creating web applications. That thought me, that there is a difference between wishing for things and really being ready to receive them.
So again here is the golden formula every one who has achieved anything will tell you.
- Decide what you want
- Write it on a peace of paper and read it out loud as often as possible
- Decide what you love to do and gives other some value
- Believe that you can acquire it and really get emotionally involved with the thought and try to visualize the positive end result.
- Keep doing this every day and don’t quit!
- To shift your energy and make things happen even faster, you have to flood you mind with positive thoughts. The easiest way to do so is to just think about the opposite of all the negative thoughts that ever come to your mind for what ever reason and keep thinking about the things you already are thankful for. Because this makes your mind to be in a higher vibration, that is extremely positive and loads you with pure powerful energy, that now can manifest into whatever you want to receive.
Remember! You can do it, just believe you can and start acting upon your inspired thinking!
Wednesday 1 July 2009
Problem with people who use your pocket?
Well first of all I have always told you, that It's not bad if someone is trying to use you, because that means, that they officially admit, that you are stronger than they are in their opinion. That means, that they give a grate part of their energy to you and therefore your actually become stronger than they are, because they give away their own power to you. The result is simple, you have more energy and therefore they need more from you. Because of the fact, that human needs are always increasing, they will need more and more until they have eventually not only emptied them selves but start to destroy you. And then it starts to get seriously bad for you... Until that time they are only adding to your energy and supporting you. So one way to operate with them is, just to keep them in small bursts at a time. Don't keep them all the time around you. Meet them once in a while, preferably when you feel ok, but you could use some extra energy.
There is another sort of people who use others. They just need the other person to give them money and they are willing to almost anything to get the bit of cash from you. In such cases you should set up a bookkeeping how much did they got from you and then you could send them a bill showing that you ask the money back and you were so kind not to sum the fee for the credit... But in that way you might not only not get anything back, you might even loose a good friend. So here is what I suggest you do. Never give them any of your money just like that. Help them earn it! If you don't have a company or you can't in any way give them a job, at least make them take out your garbage, so that they get used to earning your help, your money, your smile, to learn that for everything you have to pay, and money is not the only way to pay for things... Usually if they are just creatures of sucking and keep sucking the money out of you, they are not really friends and if you do as I suggest, then they won't keep in contact with you at all any more... Remember you are not a charity institution, you are a person who is learning how to control your life, your income, your results, your feelings and how to communicate with the world better, but that doesn't mean, that you have to allow others to inflict any kind of damage to you in any way.
Another (harder, but better) way to get rid of such kind of people is to point out the things you really like in them in your mind and actually to them in words. The result will be stunning. They will mostly become to you what you perceive them to be, and if they are not in the same thought (vibration) as you are, the universe will not set you in the same time space. They will "zig" while you "zag"... They will not be available or you will be out with your friends, probably telling them what a nice person that parasite is... The goal is to direct positive thoughts and energy to you as much as possible and that will keep you away from the bad side of that person. You see everything has 2 or even more sides. You choose at which side to look. It's best to choose to see only the good, because that gives energy to the good side of anything or anyone you look at and leaves less for the negative side of it...
Keep up the good work and don't forget - the things you train most will become stronger and those you don't use will die in you. So stop training beliefs like "I can't do it. I'm not sure if I can. I'm just not cut out for this." and start training beliefs, that implicate the opposite of it! Your mind makes things real!
There is another sort of people who use others. They just need the other person to give them money and they are willing to almost anything to get the bit of cash from you. In such cases you should set up a bookkeeping how much did they got from you and then you could send them a bill showing that you ask the money back and you were so kind not to sum the fee for the credit... But in that way you might not only not get anything back, you might even loose a good friend. So here is what I suggest you do. Never give them any of your money just like that. Help them earn it! If you don't have a company or you can't in any way give them a job, at least make them take out your garbage, so that they get used to earning your help, your money, your smile, to learn that for everything you have to pay, and money is not the only way to pay for things... Usually if they are just creatures of sucking and keep sucking the money out of you, they are not really friends and if you do as I suggest, then they won't keep in contact with you at all any more... Remember you are not a charity institution, you are a person who is learning how to control your life, your income, your results, your feelings and how to communicate with the world better, but that doesn't mean, that you have to allow others to inflict any kind of damage to you in any way.
Another (harder, but better) way to get rid of such kind of people is to point out the things you really like in them in your mind and actually to them in words. The result will be stunning. They will mostly become to you what you perceive them to be, and if they are not in the same thought (vibration) as you are, the universe will not set you in the same time space. They will "zig" while you "zag"... They will not be available or you will be out with your friends, probably telling them what a nice person that parasite is... The goal is to direct positive thoughts and energy to you as much as possible and that will keep you away from the bad side of that person. You see everything has 2 or even more sides. You choose at which side to look. It's best to choose to see only the good, because that gives energy to the good side of anything or anyone you look at and leaves less for the negative side of it...
Keep up the good work and don't forget - the things you train most will become stronger and those you don't use will die in you. So stop training beliefs like "I can't do it. I'm not sure if I can. I'm just not cut out for this." and start training beliefs, that implicate the opposite of it! Your mind makes things real!
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