The answer is: I don't know. In fact this phenomena is one of life's mysteries for centuries. Many people have come up with some definitions, but if you follow any of them, you can only find the kind of people, the writer loved, not you. So here is my "definition" of love. If you feel inside you, that this person could be the one, but you don't feel sure about it. Just ask the person or wait until the question pops on her own. Love can't be hurried, it can't be 100% stable or predictable. You can only hope, that it's there. There is one thing you can do tho. You can give love as much as you can, but don't get boring or overdo it. Just be your self and do your best to show your love by being someone to come to and cry on the shoulder and be the one who always knows what and how to do, so the other one feels secure and needed. Be as warm as possible, as if you would take care of your own child or mother. Be the person you want to be, or you hope to become some day. You can do it now, you just have to believe and start acting upon your wishes. It's not a mystery any more is it? You are seeking for the same things as everybody else who want's to settle down, so don't be afraid of your wants, don't be worried about what will happen and will the person you chose be the same or better in time. Will he or she be good enough to rise children etc... Remember there are no coincidence, only cause and effect. That again is one of the laws of the universe. If you choose some body, you can't be wrong. The only thing, that can happen is, that the other person didn't chose you. In which case you have to pop the question - do you want to be with me or not. If the person says NO, then it's period. No and that's it - go on searching another one. But if the person isn't sure or says yes - it's the same result, the other person just doesn't know what you just read and now know. That person doesn't believe in his or her own power and knowledge.
We don't have to know every thing, we still can know and do all we desire if we only want to act upon our ideas, needs, wants...
If you are just reading this and not already acting, I suggest you take a good brake in life and just think about what you just read and answer to your self. Do I live like I want to? Is this simple thing worth trying? Does this work at all?
The answer to the last question is: "If you think and believe, that you can or can't do something in both cases you are right."
Man can not achieve greatness alone or by limiting them selves with believes and superstition. It can only be done through freedom, belief and friendship.
Thursday, 2 April 2009
Wednesday, 1 April 2009
What is a problem?
Today i want to talk to you about the meaning of a problem or what actually is a problem?
A problem commonly is considered something, that is in the way of something and is not letting us reach our goals. Some even think, that a problem is something, that can not be solved. In that case they call it even a serious problem.
Actually a problem is a signal about, the very thing we are going to do or want to do, that it will change our lives for ever. How can that be? Well we are who we decide to be, so every decision makes us what we are and what we are becoming. So the choice we are making in every problem is not actually a choice, that just resolves the problem or makes it bigger, but it's a decision of what we are going to become. So the result of a resolved problem is a better or at least different life, because you choose it to be different with your decisions.
Having that said, why do problems become serious problems or huge problems with time in some cases. Well the answer is simple. We just didn't solve the problem, we thought of a way to ignore it, so it just becomes bigger and bigger until you just take it, admit, that you have this problem, and solve it.
So what tends to happen when you ignore your problems. One of the laws of the universe is, that Like attracts like, so if you don't solve a problem (small or big no matter) it tends to attract other problems as well, so you keep attracting more and more problems until you can even loose track why did the other problems became problems. So it's best if you take care of all problems immediately, so that you are safer from additional problems.
So in conclusion, problems are nothing bad, they are training sessions and a signal about the fact, that we are changing our lives in some serious way and we are about to become different. Usually it's for the better, but if you tend to think about bad things, who knows, may be you have requested the universe for a chance to become worse. Remember we are unlimited beings. We can do what ever we want till we cross some one else. Then 2 unlimited beings tend to do what they want to do, and if the want's disagree at some point, they tend to find a place, where it can be done with out violating the rights of the other one.
Try this at home and you will see the result. It's simple and logic, but it's powerful. Once you get this concept, you can do much more, than you could before. Try to do something, you like very much, but someone else hates doing that, with the person, who hates it. You will start a fight, so you don't have serious damage, just tell them afterwords, that it was an experiment, so they could receive the experience and knowledge also.
A problem commonly is considered something, that is in the way of something and is not letting us reach our goals. Some even think, that a problem is something, that can not be solved. In that case they call it even a serious problem.
Actually a problem is a signal about, the very thing we are going to do or want to do, that it will change our lives for ever. How can that be? Well we are who we decide to be, so every decision makes us what we are and what we are becoming. So the choice we are making in every problem is not actually a choice, that just resolves the problem or makes it bigger, but it's a decision of what we are going to become. So the result of a resolved problem is a better or at least different life, because you choose it to be different with your decisions.
Having that said, why do problems become serious problems or huge problems with time in some cases. Well the answer is simple. We just didn't solve the problem, we thought of a way to ignore it, so it just becomes bigger and bigger until you just take it, admit, that you have this problem, and solve it.
So what tends to happen when you ignore your problems. One of the laws of the universe is, that Like attracts like, so if you don't solve a problem (small or big no matter) it tends to attract other problems as well, so you keep attracting more and more problems until you can even loose track why did the other problems became problems. So it's best if you take care of all problems immediately, so that you are safer from additional problems.
So in conclusion, problems are nothing bad, they are training sessions and a signal about the fact, that we are changing our lives in some serious way and we are about to become different. Usually it's for the better, but if you tend to think about bad things, who knows, may be you have requested the universe for a chance to become worse. Remember we are unlimited beings. We can do what ever we want till we cross some one else. Then 2 unlimited beings tend to do what they want to do, and if the want's disagree at some point, they tend to find a place, where it can be done with out violating the rights of the other one.
Try this at home and you will see the result. It's simple and logic, but it's powerful. Once you get this concept, you can do much more, than you could before. Try to do something, you like very much, but someone else hates doing that, with the person, who hates it. You will start a fight, so you don't have serious damage, just tell them afterwords, that it was an experiment, so they could receive the experience and knowledge also.
Tuesday, 31 March 2009
Notification of mine
Sometimes we stare so long at a door that is closing, that we see too late the one that is open. /Bob Proctor/ It seems to me, that I have been ignoring so many possibilities in my life only because I was afraid of what my parents or somebody is going to say about that and even do about it... So almost 90% of the time I was just sitting back and thinking: "huh... So good, that I didn't make this mistake." After a while the want to do something in the direction I once didn't gets bigger and bigger, till you make an obvious mistake, you don't see at that time, and that's even bigger than the one you could have been making earlier and therefore gotten smarter. I conclude, that it is good to want to help your children, but it mustn't be with he price of lack of experience for the person you ought to help. I firmly believe, that everyone has to make their own mistakes, because it's their path of life and in that path lay the lessons one has to learn in his or her life.
I hope, that with this I encouraged people to make their own mistakes no matter what others would say about it, of course in reasonable terms, and that parents or other, who tend to help someone by not letting them experience something they need to, at least start to think about what harm can they do to that person.
We all are born free. freedom is what we need to achieve greatness, so stay hungry, stay foolish and learn your lessons for your self. After all we should live our lives so, that we don't have any time to criticize others.
I hope, that with this I encouraged people to make their own mistakes no matter what others would say about it, of course in reasonable terms, and that parents or other, who tend to help someone by not letting them experience something they need to, at least start to think about what harm can they do to that person.
We all are born free. freedom is what we need to achieve greatness, so stay hungry, stay foolish and learn your lessons for your self. After all we should live our lives so, that we don't have any time to criticize others.
Thursday, 26 March 2009
One of the best messages from the secret homepage!
This message is free to receive, so I thought It would be no harm if I show a bit of the value thesecret.tv is giving us and encourage you to join free encouragements from the secret. It's worth it!
A Secret Scrolls message from Rhonda Byrne
Creator of The Secret
Be in Joy now and everything will change
In the moment that I discovered The Secret I realized that I had been living my entire life backwards. If things were good in my life, I was happy. If things were difficult in my life and everything was going wrong, I was stressed and miserable. In my ignorance, I had been misusing the law of attraction all of my life. But all of that changed when I had the knowledge of The Secret.
To live in accordance with The Secret and the most powerful law in the Universe, we must be in Joy first - and then everything will change. To live our lives by emotionally reacting to what is happening outside of us is misusing the law! As we react with negative emotion to any difficulties, we attract more negativity into our lives. We cannot defy the law of attraction, which operates on the most microscopic levels of vibration, and with absolute exactitude.
You must be in Joy first. And then your life will change into Joy.
Difficult times are the greatest opportunities in disguise. When we face difficult times we have to put in determined work to get ourselves into Joy. But let me tell you, when you can get yourself into Joy despite what is happening around you, your life must change - it's the law!
In addition, as you become Joy in difficult times you are becoming the master of your emotions, the master of your life, and the master of the law of attraction. Difficult times are your greatest opportunity to practice yourself into Joy.
Of course if your life is going along swimmingly then it is very easy to be in Joy. During those times your Joy is most likely a reaction to the good times. But the magnificence and the power that you really have within you will be seen when you can be in Joy during difficult times. It is then that you will see the true power that you have within you, because as you hold to Joy, you will shift all the energies of the Universe, and your life and your world will change.
The cause of everything is within you, and the effect is what you experience in your life. You have the power within you to change everything by putting yourself in Joy. You can change everything so easily by becoming Joy first! And nothing can change until you get yourself in Joy, because that is the law of attraction. Like attracts like! The energy of Joy attracts energy of Joy!
Do whatever it takes to find your Joy, and then keep yourself in it no matter what. Keep ramping up your level of Joy every day. There is no limit to the levels of Joy you can reach. You will see change to the degree of Joy that you can attain and maintain. The higher the Joy you can create within you, the more spectacular the change, and the higher the Joy, the faster the change. Once you get yourself in Joy it is easy to maintain it, because your emanation of Joy attracts more Joy. The law of attraction will continually send you more feelings of Joy.
You cannot criticize or blame or complain when you are in Joy. You cannot be afraid when you are in Joy. You cannot speak negatively when you are in Joy. You cannot harm another when you are in Joy. Negativity cannot reach you when you are in Joy.
When you are in Joy you are compassionate. When you are in Joy you are considerate and caring. When you are in Joy you love others. When you are in Joy you appreciate everything. When you are in Joy you are in love with the world, and the Universe is in love with you.
Be in Joy. Seek it with all of your heart, and you will find it.
May the Joy be with you,
Rhonda Byrne
The Secret... bringing Joy to billions
A Secret Scrolls message from Rhonda Byrne
Creator of The Secret
Be in Joy now and everything will change
In the moment that I discovered The Secret I realized that I had been living my entire life backwards. If things were good in my life, I was happy. If things were difficult in my life and everything was going wrong, I was stressed and miserable. In my ignorance, I had been misusing the law of attraction all of my life. But all of that changed when I had the knowledge of The Secret.
To live in accordance with The Secret and the most powerful law in the Universe, we must be in Joy first - and then everything will change. To live our lives by emotionally reacting to what is happening outside of us is misusing the law! As we react with negative emotion to any difficulties, we attract more negativity into our lives. We cannot defy the law of attraction, which operates on the most microscopic levels of vibration, and with absolute exactitude.
You must be in Joy first. And then your life will change into Joy.
Difficult times are the greatest opportunities in disguise. When we face difficult times we have to put in determined work to get ourselves into Joy. But let me tell you, when you can get yourself into Joy despite what is happening around you, your life must change - it's the law!
In addition, as you become Joy in difficult times you are becoming the master of your emotions, the master of your life, and the master of the law of attraction. Difficult times are your greatest opportunity to practice yourself into Joy.
Of course if your life is going along swimmingly then it is very easy to be in Joy. During those times your Joy is most likely a reaction to the good times. But the magnificence and the power that you really have within you will be seen when you can be in Joy during difficult times. It is then that you will see the true power that you have within you, because as you hold to Joy, you will shift all the energies of the Universe, and your life and your world will change.
The cause of everything is within you, and the effect is what you experience in your life. You have the power within you to change everything by putting yourself in Joy. You can change everything so easily by becoming Joy first! And nothing can change until you get yourself in Joy, because that is the law of attraction. Like attracts like! The energy of Joy attracts energy of Joy!
Do whatever it takes to find your Joy, and then keep yourself in it no matter what. Keep ramping up your level of Joy every day. There is no limit to the levels of Joy you can reach. You will see change to the degree of Joy that you can attain and maintain. The higher the Joy you can create within you, the more spectacular the change, and the higher the Joy, the faster the change. Once you get yourself in Joy it is easy to maintain it, because your emanation of Joy attracts more Joy. The law of attraction will continually send you more feelings of Joy.
You cannot criticize or blame or complain when you are in Joy. You cannot be afraid when you are in Joy. You cannot speak negatively when you are in Joy. You cannot harm another when you are in Joy. Negativity cannot reach you when you are in Joy.
When you are in Joy you are compassionate. When you are in Joy you are considerate and caring. When you are in Joy you love others. When you are in Joy you appreciate everything. When you are in Joy you are in love with the world, and the Universe is in love with you.
Be in Joy. Seek it with all of your heart, and you will find it.
May the Joy be with you,
Rhonda Byrne
The Secret... bringing Joy to billions
Wednesday, 18 March 2009
Now if you just could...
If you just could start all things you want to happen quicker... It's possible, but only in the range of your ability to feel feelings and emotions in a certain intensity... Here I have a good video explaining what is passion. It's not about the way of thinking I teach, but it's a really good material about what is passion. You can save time spending hours by the dictionary shelf and just watch this video... Now it contains information about kissing, but don't loose the point! It's about passion.
The key is - if you do something with passion inspired to act from your thoughts, that came to your mind from thinking about what you want to happen (re-read this again so you truly understand it!) then it will happen quicker than you can imagine... It just needs your energy. One of my first experiences and first posts contains a situation like this, but in that one I'm talking about how I redirected the negative energy that I had into passion for the thing I wanted to happen and it did in just 3 seconds - the situation changed the way I wanted it to change...
Study this video and improve your self in all areas you want...
The key is - if you do something with passion inspired to act from your thoughts, that came to your mind from thinking about what you want to happen (re-read this again so you truly understand it!) then it will happen quicker than you can imagine... It just needs your energy. One of my first experiences and first posts contains a situation like this, but in that one I'm talking about how I redirected the negative energy that I had into passion for the thing I wanted to happen and it did in just 3 seconds - the situation changed the way I wanted it to change...
Study this video and improve your self in all areas you want...
Vanity plays lurid tricks with our memory.
Have you noticed, that people who really love to tell you about them selves seem always to be very successful and strong personalities and they lead a wonderful life. But when you meet them unprepared, they seem troubled and can't smile as they always do when he talks about his life? Vanity plays lurid tricks with our memory. That's so true and It's know for very long time, but I think Joseph Conrad (1857-1924) put's it best.
Actually I think that if we could see vanity in our selves and start to destroy it, then we would meet the other end. Underestimation of our selves. So we have to keep it in balance and don't forget you are the biggest man in your own life and your own mind. Others are bigger than you in their lives, but nobody is bigger than you in your own life. I hope you got the point...
Think about this for a while and you will be able to feel where the balance is. You have to find the balance in every situation...
Actually I think that if we could see vanity in our selves and start to destroy it, then we would meet the other end. Underestimation of our selves. So we have to keep it in balance and don't forget you are the biggest man in your own life and your own mind. Others are bigger than you in their lives, but nobody is bigger than you in your own life. I hope you got the point...
Think about this for a while and you will be able to feel where the balance is. You have to find the balance in every situation...
Tuesday, 17 March 2009
Good material about what you can find here
Of course I don't talk about Magic... But the same things I could say about the way of thinking that I'm trying to teach here. It's up to you to understand what works for you and what doesn't. But remember I don't post if I don't experience my self, so you can be at ease about what I'm telling you. If I haven't experienced it my self I don't believe it, therefore I don't post.
So if I have posted then obviously it happened to me.
Keep up the good work and feel happy - It's your birthright.
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