Notification of mine

Sometimes we stare so long at a door that is closing, that we see too late the one that is open. /Bob Proctor/ It seems to me, that I have been ignoring so many possibilities in my life only because I was afraid of what my parents or somebody is going to say about that and even do about it... So almost 90% of the time I was just sitting back and thinking: "huh... So good, that I didn't make this mistake." After a while the want to do something in the direction I once didn't gets bigger and bigger, till you make an obvious mistake, you don't see at that time, and that's even bigger than the one you could have been making earlier and therefore gotten smarter. I conclude, that it is good to want to help your children, but it mustn't be with he price of lack of experience for the person you ought to help. I firmly believe, that everyone has to make their own mistakes, because it's their path of life and in that path lay the lessons one has to learn in his or her life.

I hope, that with this I encouraged people to make their own mistakes no matter what others would say about it, of course in reasonable terms, and that parents or other, who tend to help someone by not letting them experience something they need to, at least start to think about what harm can they do to that person.

We all are born free. freedom is what we need to achieve greatness, so stay hungry, stay foolish and learn your lessons for your self. After all we should live our lives so, that we don't have any time to criticize others.