What ar we?

How to be a good friend?

I hope you people like this... Well I certainly did...

What to do with bad relationships?

I like the way this girl thinks and talks. I totally agree and I'm a guy (what a surprise)... This girl obviously knows what she is talking about and I will be looking into her channel more often...

Stop trying to quiet the mind

Don't be at war with your self all the time!

How to share your knowledge from this blog and about Sedona method

Let go and know more

A little peace of wisdom

"If I accept you as you are, I will make you worse; however, if I treat you as though you are what you are capable of becoming, I help you become that."

Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
1749-1832, Author and Philosopher

Who is Mr. Freeman?

The best deposit you could ever make is...

Every day, or at the very least once or twice a week, take a few minutes and focus on seeing yourself in joy. Feel yourself in joy. Imagine only joy ahead in your life and see yourself basking in it. As you do this the Universe will move all people, circumstances, and events to bring you that joy. You can't be in joy if you have money worries, or health worries, or relationship problems with friends or family. So deposit some joy in the bank of the Universe as often as you can. There isn't an investment that is more worthwhile.
May the joy be with you

Please consider eating healthier

Small reminder

Constant kindness can accomplish much. As the sun makes ice melt, kindness causes misunderstanding, mistrust, and hostility to evaporate.

A story: Lost in Translation

There is definitely something to be said for the unspoken word. Those moments when a simple look or touch tells you exactly what the other person is thinking or feeling. Sadly as magical as those "silent" moments may be, overtime I think we rely too much on them and those thoughts or feelings we are trying to convey to one another get lost in translation.

We forget that the spoken word has some pretty powerful magic of its own.

We stop saying "I love you" because we assume that it is a well-known fact. We stop complimenting each other, because after a while, we figure "its all been said before, so why say it again". We stop telling our loved ones how much we appreciate the things they do, because those things become the norm, lose their luster and eventually go unnoticed.

I saw an elderly couple in the grocery store the other day. They seemed as though they were still in the "honeymoon phase" of their relationship. He held her hand, kissed her cheek and told her he loved her all in the few moments I was near them. Her response was to pat him on the cheek and say "I love you too handsome".

Yes it seemed a little strange of a scene for grocery shopping, but also refreshing to see people who I'm sure have lived through many heartaches, letdowns and broken promises to still be so loving and cherish another human being's affection so much. I found myself wondering. are they new to this relationship or have they been together most of their lives? The answer didn't really matter much to me, but the question was worth thinking about. If they were new to the relationship, they were off to a good start. If they had been together for 30-40 years, well. I'd say we could all learn a lot from them.

Seeing these two made me consider my own life and how I communicate with the people I love. I considered how many times I have looked at my husband or daughter and felt an almost breathtaking amount of love, compassion or pride for them and yet I stood and said nothing. I considered how many times I lay next to my husband and wanted nothing more than to be close to him and yet I did not move from my side of the bed. And I wonder why that is. Is it some deep-rooted insecurity or fear of rejection? Probably. But even so, am I not a strong enough person to overcome those fears? I would hope so. Because life is too short not to make the most of every moment you have with the ones you love.

So what have I learned from this? Where do I go from here? How do I change my ways?...

When I find myself hesitating to express my affections, I will reflect on what I felt when I saw the elderly couple in the grocery store. I will stop to notice the expressions and actions of those in my life and I will react accordingly (there are right times and wrong times for shows of affection). I will appreciate the unspoken moments and look forward to the spoken ones - and I will make an effort to initiate both. I will be a more considerate and confident wife, a more complementary parent, a more compassionate friend, a more eager and expressive lover and overall a more expressively honest person. I will notice and appreciate what others do for me and revel in the moment each time a kind word is spoken to me. I will not allow those precious moments to be lost, forgotten or go unnoticed. And last but not least, I will pray that when I reach an elderly age, I will still hold all of those moments in such high regard; I will not become complacent in life and that I will still be assurrounded by love as I amtoday.

Cynthia Scheid

About our own selfichness

What is happening with the people in the world and most importantly with our selves? We tend to want others to be more generous and loving and helping towards us, but what do we do in return? We are greedy, selfish and poisonous towards others or worst of all we want to take the ignoring strategy, but that kills everything that's alive. So what can we do while others keep on being greedy and selfish? Is it really a smart thing to do to help others if we know that there are so many people outside that are going to use you if you do? Every one of us has a built in lie detector, that might not work properly because we doubt everything these days, but if you look into the eyes of the person and you have the feeling, that that person needs help and doesn't want you compassion or help, but feels (no looks) like they need help, you might be better off helping them. Remember you can't help a person if you give them what they need, but you can help a person if you give the person what's needed to get what they need them selves. So next time you see a bozo on the street begging for your money offer them a job for 10$ a day. Those who really need the help will take the offer, but those who just want your money will laugh in your face. Remember if you make a change you make a change in the whole world and if many people start doing this, it will change not only the world it self, but the results we will see every day in the future. I have seen places where there are no homeless or broke people just because everyone is given the chance to do work not looking at their past, but looking at their actual results at what they want to do. they give the person a try. This leads us back to the times when you didn't need education to start doing something and you knew a master who could teach you. Remember dedication and repetition and practice is the key to success in any field. So next time you worry if the CV of someone is not good enough just ask your self if you have a master who can teach the person who wants to work.

Give a hand - not the fish, but the fishing rod.

What would make an even bigger impact to motivate you?

You can watch the movie called Eat Pray Love, that will make you start thinking about things in a different perspective. You might feel empowered and feel like you have a lot to think about - and you truly do... Give some tome to your self and try to talk to your self and listen to your self more, because you have forgotten, that you are a friend for your self as well and you have to love your self, to able to love others. But you can't really love someone when you don't know that someone well. Now I'm ready to propose that you don't really know your self that well to be sure about anything you would to in any situation. Then again I'm not sure if even the Buddhist monks know that, but some of the might be very close to realizing and knowing that. It's a goal not something I have achieved my self, but it's a good star in the sky to follow.

There is just one

This message may not be nice and comforting for those who understand some simple facts about us. We are 1 consciousness and we are immortal. So in order to have more and more power in the next level of life awareness and all other things that are going to change in 2012, they need many people to dissolve from this planet, so that more of the consciousness could be controlled by a selected part of people who know more than we care about and therefore have much more impact upon our lives than we even understand. They try to make all this information that is true to be ridiculed in such a manner that we all start believing lies, because the people who are aware about our infinite life and power, set those lies for us to eliminate the diversity of this consciousness and collect all the strength, knowledge and let them decide what they want for them selves to experience and that takes just a few loyal people controlled by one or three leaders who may agree upon the choices life gives us. So basically there is always the struggle for power and the only reason for that is, that the people who try to get the ultimate control over people are those ones who feel and think and therefore have convinced them selves that they can't feel and live the singularity called love and live in fear. That is their only weakness that is the only reason why they will never succeed, because right now there are more and more people understanding their own origins and understanding what they really are. We are becoming more and more aware and ready for the end of the cycle and the start of a new one with more conscious control over the life around us with much less effort. That's what it is all about after 2012. More control and improved spiritual life significantly. That would mean the end of systems, hierarchy and the flourishing of true freedom and love on a higher level. Now in this cycle we had to learn some essential things, that were a way of a test of the life if you will and the results will be your own capability to shape your life, universe, reality (call it whatever you like) or not being to do that and from the destructive emotion vibrations that will be empowered after the cycle ends will just simply destroy you in a form of a common disease and kill all those who live in fear. So set aside all the conspiracy theories, because they are will and have been true for as long as we could imagine, and think for a second what you can do to stop the negative from happening? Well all you have to do is understand what you really are and try to find the fastest and most harmonious way to get your life in sync with the vibration of love.

Small reminder

Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.

Earning money? No problem!

When I look for marketing ideas, I look in three directions: forward, backward, and sideways.

Looking Forward. By this I mean brainstorming about what the market will want in the future. Forward thinking may be the most enjoyable form of brainstorming. It is certainly the most common. Who doesn't enjoy a conversation about "the way things are heading"?

However, it is rarely productive. For many reasons (some of which are explained in Malcolm Gladwell's The Tipping Point), speculating about future opportunities is a game for amateurs.

Prudent entrepreneurs do some forward planning. But they keep their projections to the near- and medium-term. They know from experience that the biggest moneymaking opportunities are those closest at hand.

I enjoy longer-term speculation as much as the next guy. But I save it for the golf course.

Looking Backward. By this I mean studying past marketing masters. Backward thinking is much more useful forward thinking. Yet it is often neglected by entrepreneurs. That so few marketers today know the "classics" is a pet peeve of Dan Kennedy. He sees it as a form of arrogance. He points out that the greatest marketing secrets are eternal.

The best stuff is buried in those great old ads. Read them. You'll be astonished at how much you learn.

Looking Sideways. By this I mean seeing what your competitors are doing -- and, maybe better, looking at industries outside your own. Sideways thinking is my preferred method for generating ideas. It is also the method most commonly used by successful entrepreneurs. Jay Abraham is a big proponent of this type of brainstorming. In Getting Everything You Can Out of All You've Got, he says:

"You probably spend too little time studying the most successful, innovative, and profitable ideas people in other industries use to grow and prosper.

"Yet, if you start focusing on other industries' success practices, you'll be amazed at how easily you can adapt these ideas to your own business situation. Suddenly, you'll see significantly better results from the same time, manpower, effort, activity, and capital."

There is a fourth direction that master marketers look in. And that is inward, to try to understand the core emotions of their prospects.

So I lied. There are four directions, not three. Sue me.

Seriously, if you want a recipe for generating ideas, I'd suggest the following:

* One cup of forward-looking brainstorming
* Three cups of backward research
* Five cups of looking sideways
* One cup of looking inward

That's the recipe. Use it and prosper.

How to Make Sure Only Your Good Ideas Are Acted On

There are many benefits to being the boss, but one of the major drawbacks is that your subordinates may not always be honest with you. In an effort to seem agreeable, they may say "yes" when they are thinking "no." Or they may naively assume that since you are smart enough to be the boss, your ideas are always going to be good ones.

Sure, your ideas were important in starting your business. But it was your tenacity that made it happen. Trust your experience, but acknowledge that some of the ideas you get now may need a little fine-tuning.

Don't let anyone tell you how smart you are. Surround yourself with the best people and encourage them to treat your ideas as you treat theirs -- with enough respect to CHALLENGE them.

If your key people are not regularly challenging your ideas -- if they tend to defer to you -- take responsibility for having turned them into cheerleaders. Sit them down. Apologize, and ask for their support in the future. Then discuss how the group could best evaluate new ideas.

Your business will prosper. And you won't have to worry about wasting time, resources, and possibly big money pursuing bad ideas -- even if they are yours.

In today's issue, Brian Tracy reminds us that every encounter has the potential to change our lives forever. And I talk about something you're doing that could be slowly killing your business... and why you should never say ASAP.

Listen to the words

A very close to me person gave me a link to this video. If you listen to the words you will find the right way in relationships. It is all about ture FREE LOVE. That is why my blog exists. To teach you the real meaning of LOVE. Not only between two people, but for your self and others. LOVE is the right answer to all problems in this world. Just believe in your own power, because "just one spark starts a fire..."

Never loose faith

Most of the limitations you think you have are the ones you have decided on. They are often entirely self-imposed. You might think, 'I can't do this, I can't do that, I would never do that, my parents could never do that, I never played baseball, I never climbed a mountain, I never, never, never'... It's the old broken record in your head. Throw out that negative thinking right now! Learn to play a positive message in your head because it's all about attitude. Says David Patchell-Evans and I agree 100%. You must not fight what you are meant to be. You have to embrace it and act upon your dreams. You have no other choice but to achieve them. The only link, that is missing is your belief to do so and your positive thinking and attitude.
Everyone know how to do what they want, they just don't do it. Make the first step and be different - start to work your way towards your dreams!