True love can make or brake you... But you have the choice

True love can brake you or make you. But when you do your best to stay honourable after you brake up and keep your friendship with your ex - that alone will motivate and pick you up for a new chapter in your life. You can't stop loving someone unless you never loved them in the first place - and an advice for those who really did love their ex and may be still do? It is not the end of the world it is allowed to love more than one person... And someone who loves you as much as you will them will come along. But while it does not happen - work on your self and improve your character - replace that hurt deep inside your heart with the feeling you felt from your ex when you were still both in love and it felt amazing. That feeling is going to help you find someone new. Just keep the faith and keep on working on your self - nobody is perfect, but you damn well can try to strive for that. If more people would do that the world would be a more loving place to live in. Please try to not fall into bad habits just because it hurts and give your self and other people a chance. I see so many broken girls and guys who just survive on scraps of life in the form of one night stands and let's be honest - most people don't like this type of relationship with others at least not for long... Quality always trumps quantity in relationships. Treat others as though they are your lover for life - because life is too short to aim for anything less... This is more of a reminder for my self, but if these words will help someone else then I'm a happy camper smile emoticon If you like my thoughts and would like to hear more then please let me know that in PM. I am thinking of opening a channel to support people who are hurting like hell from misunderstanding love and the circumstances around them and help them see that the hurt can stop and how to move on and still feel love and not want to forget the past or the people in our lives and learn to love an appreciate them for what they are and what they have contributed to us... P.S. I love you and I always will - you know who I'm talking about wink emoticon You are the best that has happened to me this far... But you also are giving me the strength to keep moving forward and look for the next best thing that is going to happen to me smile emoticon It's like you said - the future has something even better for me in store... Who knows I might even meet you again in different circumstances. But for now I'm thankful and full of love for me and others who contribute to my life.

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A better Approach To New Year's Resolutions

I’m a big, big believer in the power of New Year’s resolutions. I just happen to think that January 1 is a terrible time to make them. Most people wake up that morning, pour a cup of coffee, and only then start thinking about what they want to achieve in the coming year. But making your resolutions on New Year’s Day is a lot like bending down to tie your shoelaces when the starting gun fires. Sure, you’re on the right track. But you’re going to be behind from the get-go. And it’s going to be so much harder to reach the finish line on time. This year, why not WIN the race instead? Imagine waking up on January 1, 2014 with your goals already clearly established and firmly implanted in your mind. Imagine not having to plan the actions that are going to get you to your goals, because you’re already taking them? Imagine not having to wait weeks or months to see results, because you’ve already experienced them? You can. All you have to do is change the calendar. Have your own personal New Year’s Day… in November! Don’t start formulating and working on your resolutions on January 1. Start TODAY. That doesn’t mean writing down the first things that pop into your head and then walking away from them for the next eight weeks. It also doesn’t mean diving in without a plan. You’re starting early, so you’ve got time. USE IT. Think… really think… about what you want to accomplish in 2014, and why. Get crystal-clear on your goals, and make sure they’re worthy. Not sure what that means? Watch this video before you do anything else. Once you’ve got your resolutions clear and firm in your mind, decide what actions you’re going to need to take each and every day to make them a reality. Again, you’re not up against the clock here, so think it through in detail and write them down. Have a “test period” during which you implement those actions to see if a) they’re realistic, and b) they work. If not, tweak and adjust until you land on the plan you know will get you there. Finally, decide what you’re going to do to maintain your enthusiasm and support your efforts throughout the year. This is where most people fall down. Everyone’s gung-ho at the start. Three, six, or nine months in, that feeling has often faded and the resolutions are half-met or abandoned altogether. But there are some simple and powerful ways to keep yourself fired up and on-task. You can: · Read a full chapter of your favorite motivational book once a month, and keep it with you at all times for quick reference. Once you finish, start over at the beginning, or pick up a new one. · Pull a 2014 Resolutions Mastermind group together, and set a monthly or even weekly conference call to check in with each other on your progress, share your challenges and breakthroughs, and hold each other accountable. Having your 2014 resolutions clarified, your plan of action established, and your support system in place when the clock strikes midnight on January 1 will make all the difference between merely making those resolutions and actually achieving them. If you start today and genuinely commit to the process, you will be guaranteeing that this time next year, you’ll be looking back at a string of incredible accomplishments, and living the life that you’re dreaming of today. So put on your party hat, pour a glass of champagne, and get down to it. And come this January 1, you’ll really have something to celebrate! Bob Proctor

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